As if this lifted my mood!

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CoffeeCup2

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As if this lifted my mood!
« on: March 16, 2018, 12:20:33 PM »
I don’t know what this means, but I just had a glimmer of hope.

This is going to sound so peculiar.

Saw a message pop up on stbx phone from an “acquaintance” whom I know. Didn’t read the whole thing, just saw her name. Yes, her name.

Early in our relationship, stbx told me he tried to get with her in the past.

Hmmmm.

Is it bad that I think, hey, if I can catch you doing something, it will make this easier?

I know, this is what is running through my head these days....

Just find it funny he’s talking to her recently.

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Whiteheron

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Re: As if this lifted my mood!
« Reply #1 on: March 16, 2018, 02:08:15 PM »
Nope, that's what I was hoping for - a clear way out. And he provided it for me.
You can't destroy me if I don't care.

Being able to survive it doesn't mean it was ever ok.

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Funmum

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Re: As if this lifted my mood!
« Reply #2 on: March 16, 2018, 06:21:23 PM »
No, can totally relate.
I'm telling myself that over stbx recent disappearance. X

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symbasmommy

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Re: As if this lifted my mood!
« Reply #3 on: March 16, 2018, 09:37:33 PM »
Absolutely normal....keep your eyes and ears open but even if you do catch him with more...don't confront him..keep it tucked away for safe keeping if you can....

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zenagain

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Re: As if this lifted my mood!
« Reply #4 on: March 16, 2018, 09:56:05 PM »
 :yeahthat:   

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Beachgirl

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Re: As if this lifted my mood!
« Reply #5 on: March 21, 2018, 04:23:29 PM »
It's not bad. It's disappointing that we even need a final breaking point. If that's yours, then to me it takes the confusion away. He made his decision by going outside of the commitment after all the other behavior was already overwhelming the relationship. Mine won't do me the courtesy of letting me go.
"The only thing more unthinkable than leaving was staying; the only thing more impossible than staying was leaving". Eat, Pray, Love
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