Ok what just happened. So gaslit I don’t know anymore

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Getting better, sunshine - you're out 👍

[Rebel13]

Oh my gosh you dodged a bullet sunshine. So glad you are making your own, new life.

[SeaBreeze]

Yikes! Yes, please leave him to his mother and the junkpile. You deserve so much better going forward.

[sunshine702]

I don't believe he is NPD he has been diagnosed BPD but the cabinet story here yep that is /was my life.

  https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Xh34JyezcCw

[sunshine702]

So back in 2022 he was raging about micro movements in my face.
I just re read that .  Back then I thought it was the move stress

[sunshine702]

There seems to be much more than the mil. You might have had a lucky escape from an abusive relationship.
Did you not feel scared around him? Walking on eggshells, trying not to upset him?

He menaced me this morning waking me up at 5 am.  I texted him about getting things from the shop but telling his mom to not freak her out.  The family is protective of that space. 

More emotional abuse.  New favorite person his mom.

My new apartment is so so so nice!! The movers were perfect and everything fits in like a sunlit home