Out of the FOG

Getting Started => The Welcome Mat => Topic started by: Ive77777 on November 17, 2019, 03:00:23 PM

Title: New here
Post by: Ive77777 on November 17, 2019, 03:00:23 PM
Wow, I'm grateful to have found this site again. I've always suspected of something very wrong with my spouse being arrogant, self entitled , extremely sensitive to any criticism , disconnected from others and so self absorbed but now he has revealed his true self and it's frightening . I was diagnosed with a chronic illness and he has disconnected from me completely . Won't take me to dr appts and minimizes me health issues , won't even acknowledge me . Has just decided not to deal with me. Has this happened to anyone ? Thanks for any info
Title: Re: New here
Post by: Starboard Song on November 17, 2019, 03:04:24 PM
Welcome back. I am sorry to hear of your illness, and the poor support from the person you are most supposed to be able to rely upon.

I am sure you are not alone.
Title: Re: New here
Post by: treesgrowslowly on November 18, 2019, 10:05:43 PM
Welcome Ive77777

I think there are people here who can relate. Some of us have PD parents, many of us had / have NPD partners. Lots of experience here to read about when you are ready to check the other boards.

I am sorry that you are having to deal with this when you also need to be focused on your own health and care.

As he disconnects from you, do you have other folks in your life who can offer some forms of support? Are there groups or social workers through your health care provider / hospital that you can find out about their services for people with your health needs and condition?

Trees
Title: Re: New here
Post by: Ive77777 on November 19, 2019, 08:50:07 AM
Thanks for your responses. I'm just trying to find my way through this. I dint have family where I'm at but I'll be going in December to be with family and friends. Hopefully it will be beneficial toward my overall health .