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Hi all
I've been free for 3.5 years with two kids we share.
However it doesn't feel free when sharing parenting.
The shadow still hangs over me. There's another ten of this to go.
I don't feel the need to be with him but as his life goes inevitably down the drain with job losses etc due to his behaviour it impacts his kids. They worry about him.
Also I'm the last one he can borrow money from and then turn around and criticise less than 24 hours later.
It takes a lot to jump off the merry go round for sure. Then a lot to stay off. But it's so hard seeing your kids get on and off the ride.
I'm sorry! It's so hard. You're in an impossible situation and all you can do is your best.
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