https://thebodyisnotanapology.com/magazine/when-theres-no-hollywood-ending-how-do-i-grieve-the-dying-when-i-am-estranged-from-family/
My father died last week and I found this article which does help me. I will write a letter in the Unsent letters when I feel ready.
I was only estranged from my father because I could not be in contact with my mother.
I would not go to the funeral as the only person I would want to see is no longer there. But, in these times there is not going to be a funeral due to Social Distancing so that let's me off the hook, my FOO cannot say anything about that, not that what they say matters.
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Thank you for sharing. I found the below quote from the article incredibly helpful.
QuoteHaving a regret is not the same thing as having made the wrong choice.
Quote from: GettingOOTF on April 27, 2020, 01:08:21 PM
Thank you for sharing. I found the below quote from the article incredibly helpful.
QuoteHaving a regret is not the same thing as having made the wrong choice.
Yes, that is helpful, thank you.