I Just never know when the crap is going to hit the fan from uNPD Sis

[Hopelessly stuck]

I've been doing pretty well lately...and working on My program.    I have a uNPD sis on NC and uNPD Mom on Vlc. The subject came up as to How bad My Sister left My house that She lived in for almost 2 years rent free...Then I said HOW bad they left the house.
Then Mom Pipes up and says How could You say anything about How they left that house when they found a dead cat in it?  So the argument starts on whether I let a cat die in My house. Normally I would JUST let uNPD Mom win but this time I argued with HER and stated My points calmly. which were 1) I never had a pet cat in that house. 2) I did have a cat that died in My trailer because it was a stray and died in the house over the winter. I did not live there then and the trailer had space for the cat to get into. I didn't have heat in that house. 


I did learn why I never argue with her. Like most uNPD's She wouldn't stop arguing with me. I did get My point across though. I have been NC with Sis since Nov 2018, and Yet she is still on a smear campaign. I know the fact is true that She is very jealous of me. I have been trying to Have VLC with MOM because she is 85 years old. I guess I will have to be MORE careful. 
I don't really have a question. I guess this is more like a chance for me to vent. Can any of You tell me experiences You have had in similar situations?

[OnwardUpward]

Anything my uNPD sis does is 100% defended by my uNPD mother.  Any little thing, big thing, things involving me, things involving other people.  My sis has hurt a lot of people over the years and caused a lot of damage to her family, our family, other families.  But to our M she can do no wrong.  I have defended myself over the years but realized it doesn't ever go anywhere.  I started to see that more clearly when my sis did some pretty awful things to other people and my M not only defended her but blamed other, completely innocent people, for my sis's behaviors.  It was really eye opening. 
So, I don't talk about my sis at all with M anymore, or vice versa.  I'm always worried about going into too many details on here in case someone in the family were to find this site.  Suffice it to say - I understand where you're coming from and have had similar experiences.  I am not NC but LC/VLC with both of them. 

[Hopelessly stuck]

TY for Your reply. uNPD M did not call today. The best thing is I did not let it stress me out. I realize it is just Her silent game. That helps a lot.

I have discussed on here before but in a nutshell, I am looking at everything that is going on and realized that I had to Go NC with uNPD Sis. I am looking out for Myself. The good thing is that I am seeing everything more clearly. It has been over 3 months now so I am analyzing things better. I am feeling relieved rather than depressed. I don't miss the DRAMA. I am getting more relaxed. I am not being confronted with broken memories anymore. (SiS sure knows how to push My buttons.) I realize I mean nothing to her...I am nothing more than a supply.

I had thought long and hard when I told her to just forget I existed. She came uninvited to My Son's graduation and I gray rocked her. She snickered at me saying "You just want me to forget You existed." I said "Yes, and that is exactly what I meant" end of discussion.

I just keep studying the 100 Traits. Every time I read I become more enlightened.