Reactive Abuse

Started by GettingOOTF, October 20, 2020, 02:23:03 PM

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GettingOOTF

This could go any any number of sections. I chose to put it here because  of her last line.

I have never read anything that more accurately describes my marriage and what I was like in it.

I highly recommend giving it a read if you have ever wondered, however briefly “maybe I’m the abuser”.

This quote is chillingly actuate. I had the same conversation with my ex over and over. Well he had it AT me.

QuoteHe claimed that because of how I reacted and my (this was the worst) my facial expressions others were uncomfortable around me. And that at company events I made everyone feel mistreated.

https://notmymonkeys.net/blog/reactive-abuse

There are a few good articles on her blog but this one really jumped out.

Starboard Song

Thank you for sharing this!
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