High conflict people

[sunshine702]

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/5-types-people-who-can-ruin-your-life/201711/how-quickly-spot-high-conflict-people?amp

[LemonLime]

I love Bill Eddy!  The articles he writes have been so important to my understanding and recovery from PD sib.  And not to mention.....everybody should understand this stuff.   Nobody gets through life without meeting a HC person.  And when I think back to my younger years, I was meeting them regularly, and spent ridiculous amounts of time and stomach acid on them, trying to "make things work" in some way or another, and wondering what was wrong with me that I had such strong negative feelings about them.    I wish I had this information way back when.....putting words to what I was feeling would have been priceless and saved me so much heartache.   
The silver lining of my PD sib is that I finally explored and understood the idea of a HC person.  They're quite prevalent, and even if they're not all PDs, they share the behaviors, and that's what's important.  Recognizing the behaviors is all we have to do.  Recognize and respond.
Thanks for sending.