Separating & Divorcing

Shared fantasy

Started by escapingman

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January 02, 2023, 08:37:43 PM
by InTheDragonsDen

Over a year on the other side

Started by Mintstripes

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October 13, 2019, 01:10:51 PM
by GettingOOTF

Sanity Check

Started by wasted_tropics

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February 18, 2024, 04:55:42 PM
by escapingman

Ok what just happened. So gaslit I don’t know anymore

Started by sunshine702

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April 24, 2024, 04:29:29 PM
by sunshine702

This might be it

Started by 11JB68

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January 31, 2019, 12:33:14 PM
by Latchkey

second thoughts

Started by bohemian butterfly

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July 03, 2019, 12:27:43 PM
by Spygirl

what do I say?

Started by losingmyself

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October 12, 2022, 07:01:33 PM
by Lauren17

Hiding money when your spouse watches everything

Started by Jsinjin

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March 21, 2022, 09:00:02 PM
by Jsinjin

One week

Started by losingmyself

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June 08, 2023, 10:31:32 AM
by losingmyself

anyone leave a spouse who did not cheat or physically abuse them? why?

Started by victoriousladyJj

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January 08, 2021, 05:59:57 PM
by Lauren17

His Lawyer Submitted a Ridiculously Lowball Settlement Proposal. Normal?

Started by Happytobefree

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December 24, 2020, 09:09:30 AM
by Happytobefree

Not your average divorce

Started by AlwaysStrong

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October 15, 2022, 08:45:01 AM
by JustKeepTrying

Now the rest of my life

Started by escapingman

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April 25, 2023, 07:40:51 AM
by escapingman

Very surprised about my reaction to my ex's new supply

Started by PlantFlowersNotWeeds

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November 13, 2022, 01:17:43 PM
by hhaw

How to stay strong while trying to break this sick cycle???

Started by Legalmindhelp

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July 02, 2022, 04:58:08 PM
by Legalmindhelp

My uBPDh says the children will become failures if I divorce him!!

Started by Lotus8

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September 10, 2019, 09:00:25 AM
by 1footouttadefog

I've brought up the possibility of leaving her, and now she's being good. Help!

Started by IsleOfSong

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2,228 Views

April 11, 2023, 02:33:19 PM
by square

Still stuck in separation and trying to find a way out

Started by Blackbird11

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3,870 Views

September 16, 2019, 10:28:33 AM
by capybara

Claiming he has changed

Started by CagedBirdSinging

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July 23, 2021, 12:19:14 PM
by CagedBirdSinging

Early days after separation

Started by CagedBirdSinging

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February 23, 2021, 01:15:15 PM
by hhaw

Damned if you do, damned if you don't

Started by escapingman

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December 30, 2023, 08:39:17 AM
by SeaBreeze

5 days ago

Started by StartingHealing

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July 21, 2022, 01:09:56 PM
by StartingHealing

I feel like I'm going crazy

Started by D.Dan

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October 30, 2020, 10:12:22 PM
by HollyG

Why can't I leave?

Started by Blackbird11

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July 24, 2019, 02:06:11 PM
by bohemian butterfly

Ex is acting fine?

Started by HadleyBird

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July 22, 2022, 08:15:47 AM
by HadleyBird

I'm at a hotel

Started by Jsinjin

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July 08, 2021, 01:08:35 AM
by Free2Bme

An update and maybe helpful for those trying to get out of their relationship

Started by mrstring

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November 05, 2019, 10:57:27 AM
by mrstring

Playing the game

Started by escapingman

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September 24, 2022, 04:33:28 AM
by escapingman

Using the system to continue the abuse

Started by escapingman

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November 08, 2022, 10:51:32 PM
by WhiteWolf

Nearly 1 year of divorce proceedings

Started by Stillirise

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May 28, 2021, 05:47:48 AM
by SonofThunder