Chosen Relationships

NPD and trauma bonds and wanting to give up

Started by iamthefire

17 Replies
2,172 Views

April 18, 2019, 06:11:42 AM
by Boat Babe

...who let the fly in the house? Are you kidding me.

Started by 1footouttadefog

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20 Replies
2,159 Views

October 13, 2019, 07:46:44 AM
by tommom

Actual childish or child-like behaviour in arguments

Started by arcticfox

11 Replies
2,143 Views

February 04, 2023, 09:46:40 AM
by Matilda

Something bizarre and fishy happened

Started by SparkStillLit

14 Replies
2,140 Views

November 03, 2019, 08:44:46 PM
by 11JB68

Confirmation that I'm Not Crazy

Started by Worthy of Care

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27 Replies
2,118 Views

December 11, 2021, 02:38:01 AM
by Lauren17

Was this a toxic, abusive relationship?

Started by foggydude

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30 Replies
2,099 Views

January 21, 2021, 04:38:29 PM
by foggydude

Drama he's created then resolves to be the "good guy"

Started by TooLiteral

12 Replies
2,077 Views

October 24, 2019, 09:45:00 AM
by TooLiteral

Newly Ex-Girlfriend with BPD (PLEASE HELP OR RELATE)

Started by CharleyBiaggio

7 Replies
2,074 Views

February 04, 2020, 08:07:33 PM
by CharleyBiaggio

IDD Cycle Speeding up

Started by falsebalance2

Pages1 2 3

41 Replies
2,073 Views

July 18, 2022, 12:56:05 PM
by falsebalance2

Silly me

Started by Crushed_Dad

13 Replies
2,067 Views

November 18, 2019, 06:33:40 PM
by NumbLotus

drama queen/kings? Ever noticed?

Started by zenagain

11 Replies
2,046 Views

January 30, 2019, 02:16:24 PM
by Kaneda8888

What is your take on this?

Started by Cascade

13 Replies
2,036 Views

February 12, 2019, 12:19:39 AM
by 1footouttadefog

Understanding the discard

Started by fish2019

9 Replies
2,031 Views

November 03, 2019, 12:20:32 AM
by Samuel S.

Does this sound like uNPD? I’m completely broken

Started by Limerence

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23 Replies
2,029 Views

March 08, 2023, 02:27:02 PM
by moglow

When someone is kind and wants to help

Started by Samuel S.

12 Replies
2,024 Views

March 05, 2019, 04:51:17 PM
by musttryharder

Marriage and kids as anchor for BPD?

Started by PenName

19 Replies
2,017 Views

March 20, 2020, 09:54:34 PM
by 1footouttadefog

Popsicles....seriously?? It's never enough

Started by 11JB68

14 Replies
2,012 Views

May 29, 2019, 06:11:50 AM
by Whiteheron

Who they spend their time with

Started by Pepin

17 Replies
1,992 Views

August 07, 2021, 04:54:28 PM
by xredshoesx

Ok, you guys are NOT wrong!!

Started by SparkStillLit

12 Replies
1,992 Views

November 18, 2019, 10:40:24 PM
by 11JB68

Advocating for myself without my wife!

Started by Samuel S.

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24 Replies
1,984 Views

September 17, 2020, 09:02:29 AM
by 1footouttadefog

How to forgive abuse while with the person who did it?

Started by Blackbird11

14 Replies
1,961 Views

January 31, 2019, 09:59:47 AM
by Blackbird11

When I can't say anything right.

Started by logistics

7 Replies
1,948 Views

February 20, 2020, 03:09:00 PM
by logistics

He keeps upping the ante

Started by Lauren17

11 Replies
1,947 Views

October 28, 2019, 11:21:16 AM
by Lauren17

EVERYTHING is the end of the world....

Started by TooLiteral

17 Replies
1,938 Views

September 24, 2019, 06:09:11 PM
by 1footouttadefog

So secretive!

Started by Cascade

17 Replies
1,926 Views

July 30, 2019, 09:38:51 AM
by losingmyself

Well, so, this is new

Started by SparkStillLit

Pages1 2

22 Replies
1,919 Views

June 02, 2021, 09:02:23 AM
by square

Why I'm trying to hang on for daughter

Started by NumbLotus

19 Replies
1,911 Views

November 22, 2019, 08:56:01 AM
by livedit

Is your PD obsessive about everything to not be close?

Started by Samuel S.

14 Replies
1,899 Views

April 28, 2019, 01:21:09 PM
by 1footouttadefog

When they finally show their behavior to others

Started by 11JB68

16 Replies
1,895 Views

October 01, 2021, 05:50:39 AM
by SonofThunder

Avoidance - TV

Started by 11JB68

19 Replies
1,888 Views

August 13, 2019, 07:38:33 AM
by 1footouttadefog