Divorce is final.

Started by Blackbird11, December 26, 2021, 07:30:30 AM

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Blackbird11

Took almost 3 years. Judge finalized earlier this week.

It has been a JOURNEY ya'll.

Thank you all so much for helping me get through it.


SonofThunder

Congratulations Blackbird11!   

3 years is a crawl wow, but glad to read it was finalized by a judge, providing you the legal conclusion and knowns (vs unknowns along the process) to now work with going forward.  My wishes for you to find growing peace, steady healing and joy. 

SoT
Proverbs 17:1
A meal of bread and water in peace is better than a banquet spiced with quarrels.

2 Timothy 1:7
For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.

Proverbs 29:11
A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.

hhaw

Well done, Blackbird11!!!

Good on'ya for seeing it through.  What wonderful holiday news, WOO HOO!!

hhaw



What you are speaks so loudly in my ears.... I can't hear a word you're saying.

When someone tells you who they are... believe them.

"That which does not kill us, makes us stronger."
Nietchzsche

"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness."
Eleanor Roosevelt

sad_dog_mommy

Congratulations!   What a terrific way to end 2021 and begin 2022!!   
Sometimes you don't realize you're actually drowning when you are trying to be everyone else's anchor.   

Not all storms come to disrupt your life, some come to clear your path.

Unconditional love doesn't mean you have to unconditionally accept bad behavior.

Poison Ivy

I'm glad you've reached this milestone and I hope you have a good 2022.

Kat54

Congratulations! It's a mile stone for sure and quite the journey. Wishing you peace and new happiness for 2022.

Stillirise

Congratulations!!  After such a long slog, I'm sure it will feel quite liberating to ring in the new year as a single person!  Your stories were so important to me early on in my journey Out of the FOG, and divorcing my updxh.  Thank you for sharing them!  Best wishes to you on your new chapter!
You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I'll rise.
—Maya Angelou

JustKeepTrying

Congratulations!  Here is to a happier 2022!!!

PlantFlowersNotWeeds

I so enjoy these types of posts.  It reminds me that this will be me someday too.  Congratulations what a great way to start 2022