Out of the FOG

Coping with Personality Disorders => Chosen Relationships => Topic started by: DCF1952 on March 31, 2024, 07:17:22 PM

Title: Can you ever feel them staring at you?
Post by: DCF1952 on March 31, 2024, 07:17:22 PM
Can you ever feel them staring at you? I"ve noticed when he's in a "good" mood I will feel him staring at me with a smirk, and he's either about to say something malicious or mocking or he's hoping that I will look up and say "what?" So that he gets to say it out loud. Or when he's really angry, the lizard-stare.

But then other times won't look at me. Won't look at me in public, won't look at me when there are other people around, won't look at me when I am speaking.
Title: Re: Can you ever feel them staring at you?
Post by: Call Me Cordelia on April 01, 2024, 12:54:03 PM
Yes. That was my father. He would chaperone my dances in middle and high school and give me the lizard stare the whole time, then berate me afterward for being awkward.
Title: Re: Can you ever feel them staring at you?
Post by: Queenfrog on April 18, 2024, 09:23:04 AM
My uOCPDh sometimes stares at me when I'm working one something in the household, because he's ready to pounce if I "screw up" on something. I hate this and I don't know what to do about it!