Here I Am

[ClimbingOut]

Hi. I'm here, and trying to climb my way out of a 10 year marriage with a PDH. I am not even sure which disorder to characterize my PDH by - it actually seems he may have more than one. All I know is that I've finally had enough, and my focus now instead of trying to fix our problems and help him grow, is to get out. 

[guitarman]

Welcome. You are not alone.

It can take a long time for some people to become aware that they can't change anyone else, they can only change themselves.

I hope that you can now enjoy a more peaceful life.

I saw this online today

"Maturity is learning to walk away from people and situations that threaten your peace of mind, self-respect, values, morals or self worth." -Anon.