Separating & Divorcing

feeling "owned" even after break-up

Started by bohemian butterfly

6 Replies
1,430 Views

September 18, 2019, 12:05:43 PM
by 1footouttadefog

Echoism - echoing the needs of others, losing the self

Started by bohemian butterfly

2 Replies
827 Views

June 22, 2019, 09:39:45 AM
by Whiteheron

break up guilt

Started by bohemian butterfly

7 Replies
1,155 Views

August 09, 2019, 09:05:37 AM
by scapegoatnumerouno

1 month in purgatory

Started by bohemian butterfly

7 Replies
774 Views

April 20, 2021, 11:31:36 AM
by bohemian butterfly

therapy and love bombing, but nearing the end of the chapter

Started by bohemian butterfly

7 Replies
1,211 Views

July 18, 2019, 03:07:09 PM
by looloo

Sad day, I had a short talk with him....

Started by bohemian butterfly

3 Replies
1,001 Views

July 11, 2019, 09:42:44 PM
by SeaGlass

Final decision is so hard

Started by bohemian butterfly

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23 Replies
2,820 Views

June 11, 2019, 09:36:35 AM
by bohemian butterfly

1 foot out the door and I'm still walking

Started by bohemian butterfly

8 Replies
1,592 Views

June 24, 2019, 06:19:20 PM
by Spygirl

Valentine’s Day, almost one year out

Started by bohemian butterfly

8 Replies
693 Views

February 16, 2022, 09:14:17 PM
by Sultana Bed Red

I’m a mess, but I did it. I left

Started by bohemian butterfly

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36 Replies
3,888 Views

August 01, 2019, 01:33:02 PM
by Spygirl

Wrapping it up. From gut wrenching pain to freedom.

Started by bohemian butterfly

10 Replies
1,643 Views

August 29, 2019, 10:05:40 PM
by Liftedfog

Nervous - Prepping for the future

Started by bohemian butterfly

4 Replies
873 Views

May 30, 2019, 05:42:35 PM
by Spygirl

Tonight, I have no doubt

Started by bohemian butterfly

10 Replies
1,623 Views

July 09, 2019, 10:11:46 AM
by bohemian butterfly

second thoughts

Started by bohemian butterfly

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26 Replies
2,990 Views

July 03, 2019, 12:27:43 PM
by Spygirl

push/pull, the love bombing phase has begun

Started by bohemian butterfly

7 Replies
1,317 Views

July 10, 2019, 12:33:34 PM
by Boat Babe

Trying to act normal is confusing to my brain

Started by bohemian butterfly

4 Replies
1,020 Views

July 15, 2019, 08:56:05 PM
by SerenityCat

the mask slipped

Started by bohemian butterfly

2 Replies
878 Views

May 30, 2019, 05:46:44 PM
by clara

The urge to reach out

Started by bohemian butterfly

16 Replies
1,605 Views

July 31, 2019, 03:37:26 PM
by Arkhangelsk

It’s done. In pain, but hopeful

Started by bohemian butterfly

7 Replies
813 Views

August 20, 2021, 04:17:27 PM
by Empie2204

realizations of prior conditioning and being an errand runner

Started by bohemian butterfly

2 Replies
731 Views

June 15, 2019, 06:57:21 AM
by Liftedfog

Time and space has been a blessing

Started by bohemian butterfly

3 Replies
667 Views

April 15, 2021, 03:40:28 AM
by GentleSoul

the love bombing stage has begun

Started by bohemian butterfly

1 Replies
799 Views

June 20, 2019, 12:32:32 PM
by Whiteheron

Am I being love bombed??

Started by Bowsy26

8 Replies
963 Views

May 22, 2020, 09:26:17 PM
by Bowsy26

Can you "re-fog" after coming Out of the FOG?

Started by Bowsy26

6 Replies
791 Views

May 18, 2020, 01:11:43 PM
by Bowsy26

Leaving and decompensation

Started by Bowsy26

5 Replies
928 Views

June 07, 2020, 12:15:26 AM
by SeaGlass

PDs and risky or dangerous Covid-19 behavior

Started by Bowsy26

3 Replies
691 Views

April 19, 2020, 09:28:08 PM
by Blackbird11

Making list of all belongings etc

Started by Bowsy26

3 Replies
806 Views

June 21, 2020, 02:38:05 PM
by Bowsy26

Being invalidated

Started by Bowsy26

6 Replies
1,016 Views

May 06, 2020, 07:49:51 PM
by Spygirl

Feeling desperare

Started by Bowsy26

3 Replies
500 Views

July 12, 2020, 09:40:28 PM
by GettingOOTF

Last effort

Started by Bowsy26

4 Replies
824 Views

April 26, 2020, 12:31:23 PM
by Bowsy26