Separating & Divorcing

I messed up- I reached out to my ex...offered an olive branch. Lesson learned

Started by bohemian butterfly

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20 Replies
3,147 Views

August 30, 2019, 02:42:28 PM
by PeanutButter

The Neverending Rollercoaster

Started by Gettintired76

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77 Replies
3,280 Views

September 01, 2022, 10:50:40 AM
by Starboard Song

The lovebomb

Started by escapingman

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68 Replies
3,307 Views

February 12, 2022, 02:21:25 PM
by escapingman

How do you initially tell uBPD spouse you are leaving?

Started by ChevyChase

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21 Replies
3,337 Views

December 21, 2019, 12:59:39 PM
by hhaw

Still here

Started by Gettintired76

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93 Replies
3,432 Views

June 30, 2022, 07:25:55 AM
by Spring Butterfly

Parental Alienation

Started by escapingman

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66 Replies
3,434 Views

November 22, 2022, 07:05:57 PM
by SonofThunder

Scheduling a consult with a lawyer

Started by 11JB68

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22 Replies
3,503 Views

October 31, 2019, 08:54:53 PM
by 11JB68

Still Healing

Started by Gettintired76

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83 Replies
3,522 Views

April 27, 2022, 01:34:49 PM
by Call Me Cordelia

Please don't leave me I hate you

Started by escapingman

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70 Replies
3,542 Views

April 28, 2022, 08:56:57 AM
by escapingman

I think I finally might have my evidence

Started by escapingman

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73 Replies
3,550 Views

May 06, 2022, 06:05:07 PM
by SonofThunder

Thanksgiving? What to do.

Started by Gettintired76

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90 Replies
3,551 Views

January 07, 2022, 10:24:29 AM
by bloomie

The truth war goes on part 2

Started by escapingman

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77 Replies
3,575 Views

July 23, 2022, 04:31:58 AM
by guitarman

"Farewell Sex"??

Started by Scythe

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21 Replies
3,596 Views

April 21, 2021, 08:09:40 PM
by 1footouttadefog

In the Dragon's Den

Started by InTheDragonsDen

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71 Replies
3,719 Views

April 03, 2023, 05:30:23 PM
by bloomie

Why can't I leave?

Started by Blackbird11

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31 Replies
3,734 Views

July 24, 2019, 02:06:11 PM
by bohemian butterfly

UNPDstbxw sees me as black and white at the same time

Started by escapingman

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81 Replies
3,767 Views

May 18, 2022, 04:15:54 AM
by escapingman

Is it me?

Started by escapingman

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66 Replies
3,780 Views

March 26, 2022, 10:34:30 PM
by mindcirkus

Over a year on the other side

Started by Mintstripes

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25 Replies
3,828 Views

October 13, 2019, 01:10:51 PM
by GettingOOTF

Still stuck in separation and trying to find a way out

Started by Blackbird11

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29 Replies
3,866 Views

September 16, 2019, 10:28:33 AM
by capybara

What next?

Started by escapingman

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80 Replies
3,870 Views

June 26, 2022, 11:12:48 PM
by hhaw

New year new me

Started by Gettintired76

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101 Replies
3,875 Views

February 01, 2022, 10:51:38 AM
by bloomie

I’m a mess, but I did it. I left

Started by bohemian butterfly

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36 Replies
3,900 Views

August 01, 2019, 01:33:02 PM
by Spygirl

Control

Started by escapingman

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79 Replies
3,970 Views

December 12, 2021, 06:27:02 AM
by escapingman

The truth war goes on

Started by escapingman

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84 Replies
3,972 Views

July 08, 2022, 12:50:35 PM
by hhaw

Black or white

Started by escapingman

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75 Replies
4,083 Views

November 19, 2021, 09:01:14 AM
by hhaw

I have filed

Started by escapingman

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93 Replies
4,106 Views

February 04, 2022, 08:43:13 AM
by Starboard Song

when are you ever ready?

Started by mrconfused

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58 Replies
4,133 Views

August 17, 2020, 02:58:34 PM
by rubixcube

I just had her served

Started by pushit

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37 Replies
4,136 Views

May 14, 2019, 09:52:30 AM
by hhaw

Worn out but standing firm

Started by escapingman

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80 Replies
4,257 Views

December 30, 2021, 04:05:59 PM
by hhaw

This might be it

Started by 11JB68

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26 Replies
4,296 Views

January 31, 2019, 12:33:14 PM
by Latchkey