Boundaries Protect You..

[Simon]

Let's face it.
Most of us wouldn't be here if it wasn't for the fact that to some degree, we have problems with boundaries.

My boundaries have always been pretty strong, which is why my relationship only lasted 11 months, but she did break down a lot of my boundaries that I would have considered very strong, all because of a pretty face or a nice smile. 
The truth is, if I'd had healthy boundaries from the start, either I would have called it quits after a couple of dates, or she would have.

Here's a great video by Dr. T on the subject (there's also a part 2).

And here's a very valuable nugget of information from it:
"Disordered people, whether they're Female or Male, experience Accountability as Abuse, and Boundaries as being Controlled."

Boundaries Protect You from Narcissists and Borderlines, Part 1: The Golden Rule
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L6tKZvelXkg