Just started reading this. Mostly finding it helpful. But just read a section today on PDs and was very disappointed in his take on what I think is supposed to be OCPD but seems too much like the often confused OCD...
I listened to the audio version and it has been great. Helps put things into perspective and really lays reality on ya. One thing that i've found interesting in all of my recent learnings is how much overlap there is in the mindset of abusers and PDs. Which is interesting since not all abusers have a PD. It can make distinguishing if its a PD case or abuse case kind of tricky.
Sequoia, I've been listening to podcasts lately. One really good one is the Domestic Violence Discussion.
Also I have not done a great job of finding time to read this. Reading it on lunch at work and so busy.... About halfway through