Chosen Relationships

Do you ever fake love, feelings, and affection with your spouse?

Started by JeannieM

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22 Replies
3,343 Views

September 20, 2019, 08:57:23 AM
by Stillirise

Dealing with effect on children

Started by Gettintired76

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22 Replies
1,682 Views

October 01, 2021, 07:11:10 AM
by 1footouttadefog

Pushing Buttons

Started by SparkStillLit

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21 Replies
2,180 Views

October 07, 2019, 10:36:21 AM
by SparkStillLit

It's full on B. S. Crazy time here.

Started by 1footouttadefog

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21 Replies
1,556 Views

September 10, 2021, 08:39:55 PM
by 1footouttadefog

Turning my attention to DH...

Started by Pepin

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21 Replies
2,209 Views

May 26, 2023, 01:36:58 PM
by 1footouttadefog

He doesn't seem to remember

Started by 11JB68

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21 Replies
1,837 Views

August 26, 2021, 12:58:23 AM
by square

Food

Started by SparkStillLit

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21 Replies
2,939 Views

October 31, 2019, 07:38:47 AM
by 1footouttadefog

Now wrecking long weekend??

Started by SparkStillLit

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21 Replies
2,512 Views

September 24, 2019, 10:12:15 AM
by SquarePegs80

What is this behavior? To outsiders he acts like I'm 'the boss'

Started by 11JB68

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21 Replies
1,383 Views

August 15, 2022, 09:48:27 PM
by BeautifulCrazy

I have been emotionally whiplashed by my wife.

Started by Samuel S.

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20 Replies
1,782 Views

August 01, 2020, 08:29:07 AM
by PeanutButter

Wife with Covert Narcissism

Started by NBRiverGuy

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20 Replies
1,198 Views

January 14, 2024, 04:21:36 PM
by NBRiverGuy

*warning, pd sex related* mining through my history

Started by SparkStillLit

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20 Replies
1,573 Views

August 19, 2020, 11:44:24 AM
by losingmyself

WOW...a BIG BLOW UP!!!!

Started by sarandro

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20 Replies
1,700 Views

February 25, 2020, 10:36:49 AM
by sarandro

...who let the fly in the house? Are you kidding me.

Started by 1footouttadefog

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20 Replies
2,158 Views

October 13, 2019, 07:46:44 AM
by tommom

Angry on weekends

Started by Cascade

19 Replies
3,731 Views

January 27, 2020, 09:33:54 PM
by GettingOOTF

What do you think about my inclination to separate from DH temporarily

Started by Dinah-sore

19 Replies
1,356 Views

August 24, 2020, 11:25:35 PM
by Dinah-sore

Why can't I think when I'm around him?

Started by TooLiteral

19 Replies
2,405 Views

March 20, 2021, 01:19:21 AM
by ploughthrough2021

Why I'm trying to hang on for daughter

Started by NumbLotus

19 Replies
1,910 Views

November 22, 2019, 08:56:01 AM
by livedit

Thinking of talking to DD

Started by NumbLotus

19 Replies
1,854 Views

March 12, 2020, 07:13:06 AM
by NumbLotus

Double Binds and Stress

Started by falsebalance2

19 Replies
1,069 Views

May 02, 2022, 09:59:00 PM
by falsebalance2

More manipulation as usual

Started by Samuel S.

19 Replies
1,600 Views

July 12, 2020, 12:12:06 AM
by PeanutButter

Avoidance - TV

Started by 11JB68

19 Replies
1,888 Views

August 13, 2019, 07:38:33 AM
by 1footouttadefog

he wants to come to work with me

Started by losingmyself

19 Replies
1,620 Views

January 21, 2020, 02:37:24 PM
by GentleSoul

One foot out the door

Started by bohemian butterfly

19 Replies
2,222 Views

May 28, 2019, 01:53:37 PM
by bohemian butterfly

Marriage and kids as anchor for BPD?

Started by PenName

19 Replies
2,017 Views

March 20, 2020, 09:54:34 PM
by 1footouttadefog

Gaslighting

Started by Hilltop

19 Replies
1,810 Views

November 12, 2020, 10:38:29 AM
by Matteblak

Money drama

Started by 11JB68

19 Replies
1,466 Views

September 16, 2020, 09:01:11 AM
by Frankie14

Sexual Coercion

Started by TooLiteral

18 Replies
1,562 Views

October 22, 2021, 12:08:26 PM
by j_curren

Are Their Threats Usually Empty?

Started by kenya33

18 Replies
2,718 Views

February 09, 2019, 03:47:26 PM
by Whiteheron

Well, it happened, I'm hurt pretty badly.

Started by SparkStillLit

18 Replies
2,225 Views

January 25, 2020, 10:54:08 PM
by 11JB68