Out of the FOG

Coping with Personality Disorders => Non-PD Dad's Forum => Topic started by: Ohboy77 on August 31, 2015, 11:37:14 AM

Title: Dividing the family and and getting an education.
Post by: Ohboy77 on August 31, 2015, 11:37:14 AM
I figures this should be the right place to put this.

After about 2-3 weeks of NC from my uNPDxw there was a falling out,
The situation:
I travel a lot, we arranged for her to stay with my former inlaws while she is attending school while I'm away. My x shows up Saturday at the inlaws and starts to raise hell. My daughter has been trying to feel out the situation with her mother as her mother has been hoovering via text message for about a month now. My x arrived, my daughter his in a room. My xFinlaw argued with my x then my daughter came out only to be guilted and blamed by her mother. She went back to hiding. My daughter was so shook up that she calls me crying and said she have her mom another chance and she didn't change, she feels betrayed and lied to and wants comets NC with her mother. I have been flipping the bill for my xw's rent for the last 3 months to give her a chance to find other living arrangements but she has not been doing so. I texted her immediately after that tiis was the last month I was paying and again to find a place to live. I later received a message from her aunt telling me I should be ashamed of myself, keep in mind her aunt never heard anyone's side of story except my x's. I was also told that I was causing Xw family to betray her.
She is the person Xw regularly goes to play victim.
What would you do in this situation?
Thanks