For those of you who find it validating to hear from the experts on Narcissism on a regular basis, I have found a new (to me) resource, Abdul Saad: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2RzvSOtOaIY He has a whole channel and many videos about narcissism and empaths.
Adbul has the sort of relaxed, calming demeanor of Les Carter, but he's more clinical I would say. He really understands narcissism and I've gotten quite a few new insights from his videos.