Out of the FOG

Coping with Personality Disorders => Dealing with PD In-Laws => Topic started by: Call Me Cordelia on July 12, 2019, 09:21:43 AM

Title: UNMIL to start the day
Post by: Call Me Cordelia on July 12, 2019, 09:21:43 AM
Woke up bloody early this morning to my DH’s phone buzzing intermittently next to my ear. I blearily look over and see his home screen light up again. There are 15 messages from uNMIL on the “family” text. I dropped out of that ages ago. She’s been giving DH the Silent Treat since March. I won’t be asking DH about the content but dang, my first thought on seeing that was, “I still hate that *{%}%.” I don’t like that, but that’s where I am. Time for coffee and another peaceful day No Contact.
Title: Re: UNMIL to start the day
Post by: gettingstronger1 on July 12, 2019, 12:03:09 PM
I am sorry that you had a rough start to your day, but it sounds like you will make the best of it which is obviously a good choice. Not getting involved in the 15 texts sounds like another good choice.  Take care  :)
Title: Re: UNMIL to start the day
Post by: Bloomie on July 12, 2019, 12:08:03 PM
Oh what a way to validate the wisdom of distance. Hope you are able to kick the dust of that off and move on with a lovely day.
Title: Re: UNMIL to start the day
Post by: Call Me Cordelia on July 12, 2019, 04:22:31 PM
Thanks, you two. DH tried to open the subject and I chilled it out. “Sounds like nothing really surprising happening there.” “Yeah, it is what we’ve been expecting.” “Okay so what’s on your plate for work today?”

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