Out of the FOG

Coping with Personality Disorders => Friends, Neighbors, Acquaintances and Coworkers => Topic started by: BefuddledClarity on October 09, 2020, 01:39:01 PM

Title: Feeling peaceful for once at work
Post by: BefuddledClarity on October 09, 2020, 01:39:01 PM
Currently feeling peaceful at work, it's sorta...the craziest thing.

It's usually fairly toxic both coworker/boss and customer-wise. I haven't had any rude customers swearing at me today! Yay!

I decided to close out the instant message app today that my company uses to communicate since we work from home.

No rude condescending comments from boss, no coworkers complain about me, no micromanaging, no nothing.

I've been communicating solely by email today which is nice!

Here's some more background on my work:  Feeling overwhelmed by work---Seeking advice. (https://www.outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=85294.msg734262#msg734262)

I also cut off my coworker "friends" who told me I would be a bitch for separating my son from his toxic family(inlaws who have a history of child abuse).

A bit more on that here...Making progress by budgeting & health (https://www.outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=85820.0).

Apologies for the links, it's just easier for me to do vs re-explaining...


Anyways, those coworkers are trying to reach back out to me asking if there's anything wrong and that they're there for me but...I don't feel like talking to them based on how they talked to me. I feel like they always talk down on me and treat me like a fool/idiot when they aren't understanding me...

Anyways...yeah today is actually very calm and I feel fairly okay. I wish to drop this job soon so I can work on other ambitions!
Title: Re: Feeling peaceful for once at work
Post by: Angelacl on October 10, 2020, 06:40:08 AM
That is great! I'm happy for you! My co-workers at my first job also were toxic.. Now, at my current job, they are at least torelable!