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December 09, 2022, 02:45:09 PM
by Starboard Song

Name calling, "safe places", and venting

Started by xredshoesx

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January 14, 2017, 06:36:51 PM
by xredshoesx

Posting communications of others - please read!

Started by Spring Butterfly

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December 05, 2015, 05:49:54 AM
by Spring Butterfly

My uPD husband has died

Started by GentleSoul

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April 07, 2022, 07:12:51 AM
by GentleSoul

things I need to say

Started by tragedy or hope

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January 22, 2022, 09:24:35 PM
by Mary

Today is my birthday. I could really use some support

Started by WearyHusband

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October 23, 2021, 09:53:10 PM
by Justanotherlostgirl

What's it like for you when they have an "up" mood?

Started by rubixcube

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January 02, 2020, 09:12:16 PM
by rubixcube

Relationship spiralling out of control.

Started by Yoyocait

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August 16, 2021, 11:12:22 PM
by JustKeepTrying

Is anyone glad they're married?

Started by SearchingForAnswers

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May 05, 2020, 01:47:41 PM
by heron

MIL died

Started by Pepin

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June 28, 2022, 10:45:06 AM
by Pepin

Financial abuse-help!

Started by Mary

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29 Replies
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April 18, 2024, 09:47:50 PM
by SonofThunder

Marriage police - unable to trust after infidelity

Started by eyesopen

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January 16, 2020, 10:42:08 PM
by Poison Ivy

Incessant lectures

Started by Purpleflower

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August 19, 2021, 05:24:06 AM
by xredshoesx

Husband staying stuck, I feel I am too

Started by Call Me Cordelia

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22 Replies
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February 07, 2023, 04:27:09 AM
by feralcat

Is Their Behavior REALLY all that voluntary?

Started by Wardog

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22 Replies
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March 17, 2024, 08:03:02 PM
by MaxedOut

Working through my co-dependency

Started by Spirit in the sky

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September 26, 2019, 09:44:26 AM
by Vargas

How to set boundaries with a consistently passive aggressive narcissist?

Started by rubixcube

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August 31, 2019, 10:51:53 AM
by SparkStillLit

Planning on staying but

Started by Cascade

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June 10, 2022, 09:08:01 PM
by Mary

Ups, downs, reinforcement and resonance

Started by IcedCoffee

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February 06, 2021, 03:22:53 PM
by IcedCoffee

Covid- h home for a month

Started by Mary

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May 06, 2020, 06:55:26 PM
by 11JB68

Why do you stay?

Started by inundated

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March 27, 2019, 12:39:52 AM
by GentleSoul

Physical damage from being around a PD person

Started by GentleSoul

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December 24, 2021, 03:09:19 AM
by GentleSoul

Finances tips

Started by Mary

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June 24, 2019, 12:16:51 AM
by Cascade

Insisting that I am not happy

Started by phlox

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April 15, 2024, 11:36:02 PM
by Mary

Discipline/Punishment

Started by logistics

14 Replies
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March 22, 2019, 09:31:57 PM
by Mary

PD micromanaging our time

Started by SeaBreeze

13 Replies
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January 18, 2021, 10:57:15 AM
by Mary

Deep hatred borderline and narcissistic

Started by Justwannalove

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April 22, 2024, 02:39:18 PM
by sunshine702

Need Help Defining Change

Started by NBRiverGuy

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March 21, 2024, 10:01:12 PM
by sunshine702

Communicating with your spouse/partner about PD

Started by WearyHusband

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August 07, 2021, 06:52:59 AM
by SonofThunder

Feeling so lost and discouraged...

Started by Bluebell80

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November 21, 2023, 12:23:51 AM
by Mary