Successful boundary setting.

Started by Boat Babe, February 03, 2021, 04:18:07 PM

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Boat Babe

I set a small boundary the other day. I just said no to something my nonbf suggested and the sky didn't fall on my head. I knew it had to be said because I am working big time on my codependency and I never again  want to do something (as trivial as this thing was)  because I am desperate for acceptance and approval.  The bf took it in a good way and we carried on the very pleasant convo we were having.  No bad vibes off him at all. More importantly, I feel like I accomplished something!
It gets better. It has to.

D.

Great job!  Setting boundaries is so good for everyone.  He also gets the real you  :)