silent treatment

[starwars]

hi im new here.....in a cycle of silent treatment because i called my bf out on a lie, 3 weeks in and as always no word, ive reached out with no response. i guess its hard no closure and anxiety from him possibly hoovering

[bloomie]

Hi and welcome. I am really sorry you are coming up against the brick wall of silent treatment. It is very painful to be on the recieving end of.

I'm glad you reached out for support.

I would imagine this entire exchange - you simply calling him out on something - and this punitive and emotionally immature response has to be a huge red flag for you and has shown you an awful lot about his ability to cope with normal feedback in a committed relationship and to be willing to talk issues through.