End of the road

[bat123]

I may be, finally, at the end of the road in my 25+ year marriage to uNPD.  Things have deteriorated over the past few years as he increasingly obsesses about all the ways I've supposedly hurt him.  I'm always in the doghouse for something.  It gets better for a few days, then happens again.    It's a terrible way to live.  The other day we had an argument, he accused me of lying, and then suddenly pulled out his phone and played a recording of a conversation we'd had a week and a half ago (WTF?!) that supposedly was evidence that I was lying.  He was laughing maniacally and shouting "You lied! You lied!" over and over.  The topic is beside the point.  He's been recording our conversations.  I'm done.  I hope to begin posting on the Divorce page soon as I embark upon a major life change.  I'm just so scared.  I've experienced things as bad as this in the past and then my resolve to leave fades.

[Poison Ivy]

Good luck. Please keep coming here for support.