Hello!

[Woofa]

My fiancé of four years, and best friend of seven, recently vanished after telling our mutual employer that I was making her feel unsafe. I was depositing my paychecks into a mutual account which she closed and blocked my access to. So I lost my life partner, best friend, job, and savings in the space of three hours, and I'm trying to sort through how to cope.

[xredshoesx]

welcome to the group woofa,

I am so sorry you are going through this.  when you are ready to share more about how personality disorders may have led to these events we're listening.

here are some resources to get you started
Disorders

Top 100 Traits 

one of the commonalities many of us nons here share is we tried to take responsibility for the behaviors of others in order to fix things.  no matter how much love and compassion we show our loved ones, so please be gentle with yourself.