Did your partner ever tell you their fantasy???? [Trigger Warning]

Started by InTheDragonsDen, April 03, 2023, 03:40:40 AM

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InTheDragonsDen

Did your partner ever share their "fantasies" with you? Did they watch porn??

Reading that they fantasize and use porn a lot. Was surprised that mine actually told me hers and even more surprised to learn that other narcissists also tell their partners.

Shortly after I caught her cheating and there was the potential for an "epic" scandal in the community, as the person she was cheating with lives right across the street from us and he, was getting married in a week, she calmly started talking about her fantasy at bedtime of how she would hurt me physically and yes we are talking full on sadism. Then a month later she "shared" with me that she watches porn and the theme was the same as her fantasy. Not too surprised the two went hand in hand.

Dr. Ramani, on porn "It is superficial and it is visual and thematically, it can often feature themes of degradation, control and power"