Things you don't like and do like about self-reliance

[Poison Ivy]

In the past few days, I've had to deal with three trapped mice and one gigantic (IMO) spider. At times such as this, I miss having a spouse or partner to ask to do the dirty work. I like almost everything else about living alone and no longer being married. How about you?

[Prototypian]

In my time at my little cottage I dislike cooking alone and I dislike putting away only one set of dishes and silverware.  I love being able to throw away junk mail before it comes into the house and feeling happy friends can come over without a huge mess that's embarrassing.

[Lookin 2 B Free]

Thanks for this topic, PI.  When there are lots of responsibilities bearing down, it can feel overwhelming to know they're mine alone. And I miss the companionship, partnership, & affection of living with another.

Being able to determine what I do with my own time is a huge benefit.  And I can focus on my own values and priorities including what kind of service work I want to do and for whom. 

I think living with someone with some times apart (like you mention, Jsinjin)  would be ideal for me ... with the right person.

[Marianne]

I like that I can withdraw when I feel bad. So I'm not burdening others.

I like being able to make my own choices.

I dislike loneliness. I like all forms of intimacy of a relationship. Sharing daily stories,touch, fun activities.

I dislike having to motivate myself to do chores. I can do that better with another around. Even if they are just there.