I did it. At long last.

[SpiritedChange]

I have finally blocked my mother and every single one of her codependent agent children -- my siblings.

Let them think I'm mad at them and giving them the silent treatment. In fact, I hope that's what that's what they think. It's much safer this way. They'll get to feel all smug and superior and won't feel compelled to retaliate.

I hope and pray I never hear from them again.

[TimetoHeal]

SpiritedChange,

That's a big decision, and one I'm sure you didn't make lightly at all.  We're here to support you.  Take good care of yourself during this time of change. 

[SpiritedChange]

Thank you. It has taken five years since my eyes were opened about my mother for me to get to this point. I thought that boundaries were all that was needed. Little did I know that she was going to be able to enlist every single one of my siblings in a campaign to ostracize me, including my scapegoat sister. 

[bloomie]

SpiritedChange - knowing when to let go is incredibly difficult. I am so sorry. Count me in as another one who hopes you will take good care of yourself and go gently forward.

[SpiritedChange]

Thank you bloomie. 

[Liketheducks]

Prioritize that self-care.   Goodness me, this sure isn't a linear path, but it IS a healing one. 

[GettingThere]

Congratulations Spirited Change   

I wish you all the happiness and safety in the world and all the best on your healing journey. You should be extremely proud of doing what is best for you <3