Malignant Narcissist he is a demon

Started by Fadedeyez, September 19, 2025, 06:35:43 PM

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Fadedeyez

New to this site. I just got divorced from being with husband 30 years Married 20 he changed out of no where really bad the last year we were together out of no where was having an affair as a manager with coworker now living with co worker. Now divorced but days are hard to get through without thinking of him and why and why he is so stuck in thinking he is right hiding from everyone totally ruined relationship with our son that had also worked with both of them. Its been a hell of a ride. My first time on a forum or talking about this period. Malignant Narcissism is not a joke its so evil I literally think he is possessed.

bloomie

Hi, Fadedeyez. Welcome to Out of the FOG. It sounds like your life has been upended and things are seriously hard. I am so sorry you are going through this. What a shock it sounds like this all is for you and your son.

I wanted to point you toward a forum board that may be of support and help for you as you go through this. We have a board dedicated to those who are separating and divorcing and it is found here: Separating and Divorcing

We have a toolbox above and resources throughout the forum boards. Settle in and take a look around and when you are ready, share and join the conversations taking place where you will find insights and help as you heal and process all you are experiencing.
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Rebel13

Hi, Fadedeyez. Seconding bloomie's welcome. One of my favorite blogs is Chumplady; she writes about infidelity and divorce and especially how often cheaters have personality disorders. If you don't know it, you might be interested in checking it out.

All the best to you.
"Being humanitarian, being kind and loving, does not include entrusting my life or well-being to anyone whose intention or unconscious direction is to cause me harm. I am here to enjoy the life that Mother Earth gave me." ~ Ellen Jean Zoltak