Update

[D.Dan]

Hi all 

My exh is starting to do weird things, now that everything is over. Other than his first email about visitation and implying how I should help him, he was quiet for about a month...

I've allowed contact through my old email that I had throughout our marriage so it wasn't a big deal. He confirmed it still worked after everything was finalized along with telling me how he was "advised" by his lawyer to only contact me through email. I said good plan, but it should also be only about the kids.

Recently he's started to play some sort of game with me and our lawyers. He's contacted me for my address to send his tax forms, I told him to scan and email it. He did that and I confirmed that I received it.
A week later, I get an email from my lawyer. His lawyer is demanding my address to send the documents I've already received! (My lawyer knows I don't want my ex knowing where we live so he offered to send them my email) I said to go ahead with the email but he already emailed those documents to me a week ago.

There was also an issue with child support. Instead of emailing me to find out what was going on, i get an angry letter through both lawyers (again) along with the accusation that I'm stealing his dad's mail from the "rental house" (marital house that we actually owned).

I suspect he was trying to get my current address. 

Now I find out a few days ago, that my exFIL, is getting sued by his own lawyer for non-payment. 

I fully expect more histrionics and weirdness, since exH seems to be overly protective of his dad and gets upset at anyone who doesn't do what his dad wants.

[notrightinthehead]

Congratulations on how you stick to your plans and keep yourself and your kids safe.  Aren't you glad that you have escaped this crazy family drama!

[Kat54]

Good for you and sticking to your guns. Boy you must be so happy to be out of that. My exh there was always some kind of drama going on. It's exhausting. 

[hhaw]

D:

You probably know your ex will always manufacture chaos and confusion.  It's what he IS, not what he does, IME.

Things might slow down when his parents pass away.... or morph into something else.  Hard to say.  Trust your gut.

How are your children doing?  I hope they've settled into their new home and your happy wtih the support  you've found. 

How is the Supervised Visitation center working out?  How does it work and are there different levels of supvervision available?

And.... how have you managed to keep our address from the ex, your FIL and thei lawyers?  It was impossible for me to try and my attorneys told me it wasn't possible to hide, no matter what I did. 

Your story reminds me of my own in so many ways.  I'll continue praying for the best possible out come for you and your children.