Dont feed the Narc

Started by Bunnyme, December 11, 2020, 04:50:15 PM

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Bunnyme

It's a sign I need above my bed.  He was telling so many lies, after the 3rd utility shutoff (our initial agreement was that he pay the utilities at the house in lieu of child support), I finally had enough and sent a message where I said that his lies have consequences and that he almost got the heat shut off on the kids for December. 

I should know better.  I know he isnt going to take responsibility.  I got a sorry but...  he knows i dont care about anything he is going through, he has no recollection of anything of our 5 conversations about utilities, even the one this week.  Then he went into a rant about how I can believe what I want (his go-to), how the truth will reign supreme (whatever that means), how he is so happy now and doing great. 

I knew what I was in for.  I sent it partially to document the utility shut off and what he had said on the phone.  He was released from rehab today, and it is frightening how delusional he is. 

Boat Babe

Delusional always scares me. Please ensure your physical safety my dear.

This is really tough but keep putting one foot in front of the other. You've got this.  :bighug: :bighug: :bighug:
It gets better. It has to.

1footouttadefog

Yeah delusional is worrisome.  Be careful.

Interesting he says you will believe what you want, when he is delusional.  Projection much.

My pdh does this also.

I think tue rage they habe toward us at times is fueled by tue fact we knowntheor truth and stand between them and the reality they desparately want to manufacture to build the false self up. 

We are a witness to the real them,  not unlike being the wittness to a crime.