New here and trying to maneuver my pwbpd

[Lou1989]

Hi everyone
I wanted to start off by saying I'm so glad I found this site. It's helped me understand not only my chosen pwbpd but also understand how I contribute to the cycle. I appreciate this forum so much. It's been an amazing resource. I find myself returning here so often to grasp a grip on reality during times of uncertainty, so I finally decided to contribute to the forum. All of the information and support that I've received just from lurking and reading from the toolbox has helped me immensely. From learning about my own boundaries to accepting "mystuff/theirstuff". I'm sure I'll be posting in the days to come. My pwbpd and I have been struggling as of late and I'm finding myself caving and giving them more chances and pieces of myself than I should be. I'm constantly wavering when it comes to my boundaries. I'm finding myself trying to "save" them.
Again I appreciate all of the knowledge and information I've gained from the short time I've been here. Thank you again and I'm sure I'll be posting soon!

[bee well]

Hi Lou 1989,
I also spent a lot of time reading before I joined, which was very useful, but writing here, and having the occasion to offer support to others, has really helped me to integrate what I have been learning. It's an invaluable source of support to have a safe place to talk about personal issues that can't easily be discussed elsewhere, and to read the responses of people with similar life experience. It's also helped me to affirm my right to establish boundaries, which we know is not always so easy to do. I hope you will find the forum as helpful as I have.
Welcome, and Good posting to you!

[bloomie]

Hi there and welcome. So glad you have officially joined the community and that you have found the resources and conversation helpful.

Count me as another one like bee well, who has found participating here to be empowering and a support like nothing else I have applied to my healing journey.

I look forward to seeing you out there on the boards!

[Lou1989]

Thank you both so much!
It's invaluable to have a network of like minded people who have gone or are going through the same experiences.