Have you ever noticed...

Started by losingmyself, March 21, 2022, 11:38:58 AM

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losingmyself

Have you ever noticed that they have to point out a good thing when they do it? "See? I did that one thing. I'm not so bad."
But, it's the other thousand things he did that matter.
"I'm not so bad"  Who has to say that??  Like they need to point out the few times they acted like a normal human. And, was that the intention? To have this thing on record that you did it?
Don't forget, LM, he fixed 2 things on the car. Put that in the archive.
Nothing makes me feel good anymore.
Except that DD and her girlfriend are going to be here the end of this week!! Yay!! I'm going to take a day off from work to hang out with them. The bad news is that H said he'd take a day off, too.
I suppose, so he can monitor and judge. I don't even care. I get to see my baby!!

SonofThunder

Quote from: losingmyself on March 21, 2022, 11:38:58 AM
Have you ever noticed that they have to point out a good thing when they do it? "See? I did that one thing. I'm not so bad."
But, it's the other thousand things he did that matter.
"I'm not so bad"  Who has to say that??  Like they need to point out the few times they acted like a normal human. And, was that the intention? To have this thing on record that you did it?
Don't forget, LM, he fixed 2 things on the car. Put that in the archive.
Nothing makes me feel good anymore.
Except that DD and her girlfriend are going to be here the end of this week!! Yay!! I'm going to take a day off from work to hang out with them. The bad news is that H said he'd take a day off, too.
I suppose, so he can monitor and judge. I don't even care. I get to see my baby!!

Right there with you losingmyself!

In full-circle hypocrisy, my PDw and PDf proactively try to point out only things they find wrong with me, and the good things they experience from me are off their radar.   :stars:

Enjoy your kiddo!

SoT
Proverbs 17:1
A meal of bread and water in peace is better than a banquet spiced with quarrels.

2 Timothy 1:7
For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.

Proverbs 29:11
A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.

Prototypian

Mine is uOCPD and she doesn't really point out good things in herself or others.   Only negative or potential negative. 
It is unwise to seek prominence in a field whose routine chores you do not enjoy.

-Wolfgang Pauli