Hello I'm so glad I am here!

[Bluebutterfly]

Hello, first post here and pretty much any other forum! I found this website while searching for any information on BPD and I am so relieved! I have read many posts and checked out the resources here and finally feel like I'm not alone. I have come to the realization that I have been trying to manage my relationship with my adult child who I suspect has uBPD for at least 10 years. I have resorted to having NC for a while in the hope that they will agree to therapy. I have tried to do and say everything I can possibly think of to help them, and am sad to see many of these on the "What not to do" page of the Toolbox 
I am just exhausted in general and have had to have some distance for my own mental health. I have a therapist who I trust fortunately, and am working through the FOG, probably on a daily basis with the support of my SO and trusted family and friends.
I am hopeful that we will be able to have a healthy relationship in the near future as we are very close. I'm looking forward to reading more of your stories and connecting through this very helpful forum.

[notrightinthehead]

Welcome! You have found a good place. It's particularly hard when the PD in your life is your child. I found that it was best for me to work on my own mental health.
See you around on the boards!

[Bluebutterfly]

Thank you both, it is certainly reassuring to know that this type of support exists! I know it may be a long road to recovery but there is so much love and a lot of hope!

[Lady Bug]

Another newbie here. Welcome!