Hoovering / gifting after setting boundaries.

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Orangeblossom77

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Hoovering / gifting after setting boundaries.
« on: April 01, 2016, 06:43:12 PM »
Has anyone else experienced this. After setting boundaries, gifting and being all nice etc.

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SunnyandBright

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Re: Hoovering / gifting after setting boundaries.
« Reply #1 on: April 01, 2016, 07:44:58 PM »
Oh yes - the gifts that come with strings.   So later, they can say, "After all I've done for you?"   


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Totallytickedoff

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Re: Hoovering / gifting after setting boundaries.
« Reply #2 on: April 01, 2016, 08:03:42 PM »
Yes! After I screamed at her (I was cornered and lost it after realizing her manipulations and lies). Exactly 14 months later (and NC) she gifts/hoovers me and acted like nothing happened. No gifts for her granddaughters BTW. She was testing to see if she could suck me back into her web. I pretended and played along for H's sake.
Then a couple of months after that she texted me about a death in my family so I blew her off. She knows now that I'm not kidding about wanting nothing to do with her. We haven't talked since. She knows I have her number.