Advances...handled it well.

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Rosemarie

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Advances...handled it well.
« on: April 02, 2016, 04:19:54 PM »
Amazing what people will say. I ran into a man in the a store that my ex and I both know. He talked to me for a little while, then said, "well I would hook up with you, I always liked you." He proceeded to ask for my phone number. I told him I am not getting involved, not interested in hooking up.  This was so blatant, it was not hard to so no. So this was my first experience since I left with a man who expressed interest. I was worried I would not know how to handle advances, and I am happy to say I handled it directly and felt fine. While I felt outraged at the blatant attempt, I also felt grateful as there was not question for me about what to do. 
"Communication is to relationship what breathing is to life."  Virginia Satir

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Ginger56

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Re: Advances...handled it well.
« Reply #1 on: April 02, 2016, 06:53:29 PM »
Rosemarie-  :elephant: :woohoo:
 :applause: good for you!   :)
Whether it's a parent, sibling, friend, spouse or family member, do not allow them to drag you down a hole for the rest of your life.