Anyone had to deal with a hostage situation with PD people?

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Like if you're forced to live with abusive PD people just because there is a non PD parent (or other loved one that is in the FOG) stuck with them too? And you fear what they would do to that to that SO if you went or tried to go NC with them
How do you cope with a situation like that, even if you go NC? :blink:

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kiwihelen

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Re: Anyone had to deal with a hostage situation with PD people?
« Reply #1 on: July 02, 2016, 05:19:43 AM »
Over on Shrink4Men we say "get your own oxygen mask on before helping others".
Simply put, you sometimes have to get to safety and then offer help to those left behind. Ou uPD is trying to hold SOs 15y/o hostage with a potent FOG reinforced by society saying "your mother loves you" to this kid. We are getting to the point that we have to accept we can't rescue her unless she asks for help.