I'm bisexual. My husband has known my sexuality from the moment we began dating. We don't talk about it because it makes him uncomfortable (homophobic.) It's never been an issue. He's always been supportive and kind. But recently, because of my medium chill practice and efforts to pull away from his narcissistic behavior, he has started to become antagonistic toward my sexuality. Yesterday, I was wearing a bi pride bracelet and he told me to take it off. He told me he doesn't "believe in" bisexuality and that I am not bisexual because I am married to a man. All I could do was look at him and walk away, but the erasure was painful.
Has anyone else had their PD use their sexuality against them like this? What did you do?