What is hoovering?

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What is hoovering?
« on: March 01, 2017, 01:54:07 PM »
Can anyone point me to a definition of what hoovering is?  I keep reading this term but am not exactly sure what it is.



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Re: What is hoovering?
« Reply #1 on: March 01, 2017, 02:02:25 PM »
Hoovering is in the glossary in the Toolbox. Basically it refers to a hoover vacuum cleaner, a metaphor for when we try to break from a PD they try to "suck" us back in with any number of tricks or manipulations. I hope this helps.
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