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2nice

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« on: November 30, 2017, 07:32:47 AM »
So I've progressed from 'working on it' to 'separation and divorce' to here

Natural progression.

Tonight was first exchange kids at police station. Pretty smooth. Kids happy. I wasn't feeling particularly sentimental which is my main fear

He is not allowed to talk to me. AVO. Only in writing which is good. And only about kids

That helps. Early days

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bopper

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« Reply #1 on: November 30, 2017, 12:30:58 PM »
Keep up the boundaries.   The more you acquiesce to change requests the harder it is.
Just because they are incapable of loving you, doesn't mean that you are unlovable.
Anything makes the false self appear real is supply.

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« Reply #2 on: December 01, 2017, 01:00:03 PM »
So I've progressed from 'working on it' to 'separation and divorce' to here

Natural progression.

Tonight was first exchange kids at police station. Pretty smooth. Kids happy. I wasn't feeling particularly sentimental which is my main fear

He is not allowed to talk to me. AVO. Only in writing which is good. And only about kids

That helps. Early days

How long are they there for this time? Hang in there!

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« Reply #3 on: December 01, 2017, 04:35:15 PM »
HI 2nice and welcome to co-parenting - though it's not where most of us ever wanted to be, there is tremendous support here as you go forward. Keep posting and letting us know how things go.
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2nice

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« Reply #4 on: December 03, 2017, 04:19:24 PM »
Thank you.