Removing adult child from the home

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Bloomie

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Re: Removing adult child from the home
« Reply #20 on: December 18, 2018, 07:54:19 PM »
What a beautiful update. Thanks for sharing it with us! :hug:
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Re: Removing adult child from the home
« Reply #21 on: December 19, 2018, 12:18:36 AM »
This sounds so much easier for you all! Wow, It truly takes a village .... and thankfully you've got support in place for yourself and for him and he's using it. Take some deep breaths and enjoy the season.

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Re: Removing adult child from the home
« Reply #22 on: December 19, 2018, 12:39:12 PM »
Momnthefog,

That is awesome!  I am so happy for you and your son. Man, what a difference a day can make! This is definitely an answer to prayer.  :hug:

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Re: Removing adult child from the home
« Reply #23 on: March 13, 2019, 01:44:00 PM »
We are now 1.5 months away from 1 May.

In the past month son got a PT job at a grocery store through a contact at church.  He got a second job almost FT hours (completely on his own) at the public library.  I'm very proud of this accomplishment bc it was accomplished without a friend/family member stepping in.

Fri I'm having the "you are still moving out" conversation with him. 

baby steps.....baby steps.....



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Re: Removing adult child from the home
« Reply #24 on: March 13, 2019, 02:40:29 PM »
:whew::.

So glad to read your update, momnthefog: )
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Re: Removing adult child from the home
« Reply #25 on: March 14, 2019, 12:13:25 AM »
Really great update. This sounds so much better than last year this time! So happy he is doing better and now has 2 jobs!!
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Re: Removing adult child from the home
« Reply #26 on: March 14, 2019, 12:53:00 PM »
Woo Hoo! Great steps forward!
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