What to Remember When Dealing with a Narcissist

Started by practical, February 08, 2019, 07:38:11 AM

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practical

Excellent summary of what to do and not to do when dealing with a narcissist and I'm pretty sure it works for other PDs too:

http://www.issendai.com/psychology/narcissism/narcissists-what-to-remember.html
If I'm not towards myself, who is towards myself? And when I'm only towards myself, what am I? And if not now, when?" (Rabbi Hillel)

"I can forgive, but I cannot afford to forget." (Moglow)

Latchkey

I just saw this today. Enjoyed reading and thanks for sharing! Some other interesting offshoot articles on the site as well.
What is your plan to do with your one wild and precious life?
-Mary Oliver
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I can be changed by what happens to me but I refuse to be reduced by it.
-Maya Angelou
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When we have the courage to do what we need to do, we unleash mighty forces that come to our aid.

11JB68

How do you use their projections against them?

Penny Lane

#3
I love this! Thanks for sharing.

It looks to me like they're suggesting you can figure out their plan, as it were, by getting them to tell you what they think you're doing.

Like the old thing where if your partner accuses you of cheating you should be suspicious of them cheating on you.

I laughed at this:

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It’s better than getting a Batman villain to monologue.