Marriage with a child of a borderline

[djcleo]

Ok, so we've been under a lot of acute stress with our pending move, etc.

It's shown a lot more of the thought patterns my husband has that contribute to misunderstandings and arguments that don't make sense.

My therapist suggests couples' counseling. I think that would help with looking at underlying issues.

But.... what else can I do? I can't do the couples' counseling until we move.

We've been working on noticing verbal triggers. Usually we don't notice this until i ask him after a fight that just won't resolve. Usually over something seemingly stupid.