Marriage with a child of a borderline

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Marriage with a child of a borderline
« on: April 15, 2019, 07:09:09 PM »
Ok, so weíve been under a lot of acute stress with our pending move, etc.

Itís shown a lot more of the thought patterns my husband has that contribute to misunderstandings and arguments that donít make sense.

My therapist suggests couplesí counseling. I think that would help with looking at underlying issues.

But.... what else can I do? I canít do the couplesí counseling until we move.

Weíve been working on noticing verbal triggers. Usually we donít notice this until i ask him after a fight that just wonít resolve. Usually over something seemingly stupid.