Finally separated

[Countingsheep]

So, after discovering this website and learning about personality disorders 6 years ago I finally left him a few months ago (I had to create a new profile because I forgot my password for my other). When I learned about the many instances of cheating after years of him keeping me up at all hours accusing me of the same thing it was the last straw and I started planning my escape. I separated my phone service, disabled the find my phone app, made photocopies of everything, got a job, saved money for an apartment and then I finally told him. It was so scary. It took almost 2 years from when I started planning to when I actually left. We have kids together so we are now going through a messy custody battle but for now I am a much healthier and happier parent for my kids.

Just wanted to share this here since this website essentially saved me from the thought that I was worthless and going insane!

[cant turn back]

Congratulations Counting Sheep.
Very well played.
        

[Blackbird11]

Congratulations!!!

[Countingsheep]

Thank you! Still a long road, but this feels like a big turning point.

[notrightinthehead]

Well done!

[looloo]

Brava!!!    

[Boat Babe]

You brave, determined and resourceful person you!  Your kids will thank you for this one day. Wishing you all the very best for your new future. XXX