UNMIL to start the day

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Call Me Cordelia

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UNMIL to start the day
« on: July 12, 2019, 09:21:43 AM »
Woke up bloody early this morning to my DH’s phone buzzing intermittently next to my ear. I blearily look over and see his home screen light up again. There are 15 messages from uNMIL on the “family” text. I dropped out of that ages ago. She’s been giving DH the Silent Treat since March. I won’t be asking DH about the content but dang, my first thought on seeing that was, “I still hate that *{%}%.” I don’t like that, but that’s where I am. Time for coffee and another peaceful day No Contact.

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gettingstronger1

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Re: UNMIL to start the day
« Reply #1 on: July 12, 2019, 12:03:09 PM »
I am sorry that you had a rough start to your day, but it sounds like you will make the best of it which is obviously a good choice. Not getting involved in the 15 texts sounds like another good choice.  Take care  :)
Excerpt from "After A While" by Veronica Shoffstall-
After a while you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. You learn that you really can endure, you really are strong, and you really do have worth. With every goodbye you learn.

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Bloomie

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Re: UNMIL to start the day
« Reply #2 on: July 12, 2019, 12:08:03 PM »
Oh what a way to validate the wisdom of distance. Hope you are able to kick the dust of that off and move on with a lovely day.
"If you focus on the hurt, you will continue to suffer. If you focus on the lesson, you will continue to grow." Dr. Caroline Leaf

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Call Me Cordelia

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Re: UNMIL to start the day
« Reply #3 on: July 12, 2019, 04:22:31 PM »
Thanks, you two. DH tried to open the subject and I chilled it out. “Sounds like nothing really surprising happening there.” “Yeah, it is what we’ve been expecting.” “Okay so what’s on your plate for work today?”

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