Returning to the place of the abuse?

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me01t

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Returning to the place of the abuse?
« on: July 14, 2019, 03:04:00 PM »
If you had left your home because of mobbing, You still couldn't identify who was the cause but now with some space you can see who you need to distance yourself from/do no contact with is it safe to go back? To be clear, I would not spend any time with these people but there is one women in particular who has inflated many things and I find still messages me and I can't get her off my back. It concerns me if i go back and have dropped off the face of the earth when i used to see them daily that there will be more repercussions? I don't know what the limits are but i really miss my home. I will have been away 4 months.

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Penny Lane

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Re: Returning to the place of the abuse?
« Reply #1 on: July 17, 2019, 03:36:53 PM »
I would ask, what do you think you will get out of it? What do you see as the downsides? Do you think you're ready to go back?

These are personal decisions that each of us has to make. But I will say a lot of us have found that we've set our healing back by returning before we were ready.