FOO responses to separation?

[capybara]

uPDM just emailed me to tell me that she is not telling anyone about the separation, and to say how concerned she is about my kids. It really bothered me. But I do think this is *her* guilt about *her* divorce when I was small... my vague recollection is that I wasn't supposed to talk about my feelings about it, certainly not to her. Unless it was about wanting time with her rather than my dad.

My dad is wishing my happiness in my  next relationship...

Agh!!!