Why do they keep bothering me?

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Roza

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Why do they keep bothering me?
« on: November 05, 2019, 10:26:28 PM »
I have been NC for 2.5 months and now my siblings are bothering me again via email. I am trying to heal and going to therapy and doing everything I am asked. I am reading books and journaling and the works. Now my siblings are questioning me.  I don't know what they expect from me.  They are the ones who told me to get help and I did and now I see that I am not a narcissist but their behavior is showing me that they may have gotten fleas or they are narcissists.  I will not respond to the emails, because I am allowed to have feelings and they don't need to understand it. The feelings are mine and  mine alone. If I  am angry with my siblings I am angry and I feel sad about it but I am working on trying to get over it.  Sure I feel that they should apologize for what they said and how it hurt me and they won't.  They don't care  and I don't want to care, but I am working on trying to get over it.  I see my siblings ganging up against me again.  All I want is to be left alone, they don't need to be in my life, I served them and our narc mother. I am tired and I want to be left alone. I want to be free.

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Re: Why do they keep bothering me?
« Reply #1 on: November 06, 2019, 01:52:29 AM »
It's really backwards isn't it? How twisting and I'm sorry you're dealing with all this. Is there anyway are you too batten down the hatches and protect yourself a bit better? How are their emails getting through and that you're seeing them if you're NC?
Every interaction w/ PD persons results in damage. Plan accordingly, make time to heal
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It's foolish to expect of others what they have no capacity to give
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Roza

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Re: Why do they keep bothering me?
« Reply #2 on: November 06, 2019, 11:14:19 AM »
I still have contact with my nephew. She is using his email. So sneaky and now I will have to stop having any contact with my nephew, he is innocent in this. I feel sorry for him. I have to save myself and hope for the best for him.